Why are people fleeing?

you have to understand that no all of those people decided to go and start a revolt. the people who did want their families safe but want change. do u expect all of those people to stay behind and get killed in a war they didnt start? we're humans, we are supposed to want to help eachother. italy and other european countries would not just turn away other people because they "dont want to spend money on them." that was a really blinded, selfish question. i hope, if anyone ever needs help, that theyre only choice is not u because u would never "waste" a penny to help them.